I received a very important question from a girl who goes by the name of M (not her real name): “Why are all men such perfect assholes?”
Good question. In fact, not all men are assholes. Believe me, if all men are assholes, then there is not a man on this planet who can’t get laid and that is the problem of 80% of men: they are nice guys.
Try to look around you:
- Isn’t every man enslaved by his desire for women?
- Aren’t almost all men shy to approach due to a lack of self-confidence (which is NOT a trait of an asshole)?
- Aren’t most men the type of guys who would be labeled as “creepy” when they are attracted to a girl and try to express it by doing the only thing society has taught them and the only way they know how to play the game: supplicating betaness and playing the role of an innocent and harmless puppy? Stalking that “one” girl that they love who does everything to avoid bumping into him while she meets this asshole who knows how to press her submission buttons and then have sex with him… all without the poor puppy knowing it, still thinking that his “love” is a pure, unblemished goddess while the asshole does her in the butt?
If you think about it, it’s not only the girl that becomes the victim here, but the nice guy friend. Looking into this scenario, we can immediately see where the confusion and the problem lie: lack of awareness of the nature of the opposite sex, for BOTH sides.
It starts because the guy doesn’t know what women really want, and the girl also doesn’t know what she wants and why she falls for these assholes. M is emotionally invested in the idea that all men are assholes because she had an experience with an asshole before. How do I know that? Because that’s how you can tell if a girl has had an asshole for an ex: try asking a girl who’s had only nice guys for boyfriends and they will tell you that it’d be an interesting idea to have a “bad boy” for a lover.
Bitterness betrays our hidden thoughts, it’s a natural defense mechanism: a state of denial in which you show that you hate something that you truly loved because it has hurt your ego. Your mind does this unconsciously because you are not aware of what is happening inside your head. You can’t seem to accept that you had actually fallen for such an asshole, you HATE it. If only you were aware that the asshole actually displays characteristics that are attractive to you. A man’s confidence, after all, is the equivalent of a female’s sexy curves and pretty face, which is why dating advice for men focuses on building confidence. The fact is that assholes can easily land a chick (several of them) and most nice guys are left to masturbate with porn and be labeled as “creepy” when they fall in love. Therefore, it is only natural for a girl to perceive that ALL men are jerks since jerks are the men who display attractive male characteristics. Hence, 99.9% of the time she responds to the asshole and takes the nice guy as a hypothetical gay friend and a shoulder to cry on when the asshole dumps her, so likewise 99.9% of her relationship experience is either with an asshole or with the jerk (officially or seemingly).
Now, what can a girl learn from this? Awareness. As you know, the principle of Wizard Corpse is awareness first and foremost, because if you are aware of your unconscious decisions, you have a chance to short circuit the chain of undesirable events that will of course occur because they are the results of your unconscious mind, which is more powerful than your conscious mind. In this case, you are not aware that you are attracted to the qualities of an asshole and that you don’t know that not all guys are assholes but you just find them undesirable. At this point, we need to enumerate some of the qualities of the bad boy that you unconsciously look for (guys, pay attention!):
- He is aloof: He displays his interests but in a non-needy way. His attitude is in a “take it or leave it” state, which shows that he has high mating value — and that’s what you love about him. His aloofness naturally makes you the one who chases him instead of the other way around. which is how it usually works.
- He displays personal authority: He has his own ways and he will continue to have them if you don’t like them, the door is open.
- He never asks for your permission: Why should he? Who the hell are you?
- He never says he loves you: And you experience anxiety because of this, therefore you tend to treat him better in the hope that he will love you if you do so.
- He fucks you good and hard: Assholes and alphas have a very high libido compared to the usual male because they have more testosterone, which translates into better sex. Your body can actually detect this prematurely when you smell him by means of pheromones.
- He doesn’t take you seriously: To him, you’re like a kid having temper tantrums, so he doesn’t care what you say or how angry you are (and this is actually good for the two of you) and you unconsciously become more attached to him because of this. Women are the weaker sex (it’s not meant to be fair) physically, therefore it makes sense for her to hook up with a guy who doesn’t get swayed by her bullshit, because if he does, how will he keep his grace under pressure and be able to protect you?
- He most likely cheats on you or flirts with other women while you’re around: You might get mad, but really, this is the reason why guys who are like this have longer, happier, and stronger lives and their wives stay with them. They exhibit pre-selection advantage because a girl’s risk when in a relationship is larger, therefore your mind will tend to give favor to pre-selected men or men who are liked by the competition, because nobody wants something that is unwanted. This is the way to maximize the odds that you will get a high-quality male as a partner, too bad for most guys women’s instincts don’t favor guys who are feminine even if they are more likely to participate in raising a child once one is born.
All in all, he exhibits high mate-value. Now isn’t this just for social purposes only? To brag: “Hey my BF is so ALPHA!” Well… partly, but the main reason is because of his genes. The higher the mate-value, the more likely he is carrying healthy genes which will result in a healthier son and a high-value one who can easily pass on his parent’s genes because women will also prefer him over nice guys who show no value.
Now guys, I’ve just given you some incredible information here, that’s why I said earlier: pay attention right? Those characteristics of the asshole above, learn from them, and if you are not an asshole naturally, then apply those methods in your own life. Also check out Heartiste’s “Sixteen Commandments of Poon” post, where he gives detailed information about how you must behave as a MAN, not a mangina. I advise you to do this, learn Game if you really LOVE your wife, or if for once in your life, you don’t want to be treated like a tool and have success with women. People will definitely find you fun to be around.
For Women: this is it, now you are aware that you are attracted to those qualities, this awareness will serve as your X-Ray Vision Goggles and you will be able to assess yourself if you really like this guy or are you attracted to him because he shows valuable traits,which is also for your good. Now you will be able to see through a man if he has these qualities even if he isn’t the typical asshole (just a little). Now you don’t have to be guilty about why you don’t like that man “even if he is such a nice person,” you don’t have to tell yourself anymore “maybe it’s just me,” and you can judge more consciously and honestly whether a guy is high-value or just cute. It’s like when a guy knows clearly what is hot in a girl and what is not (certainly that guy is attractive). Most important of all, you know yourself better and you know what you WANT and you will be able to carefully select a guy who will hit a balance so you can consciously avoid the assholes — since you can never fight temptation face to face. And if I were you, I’d study how to act like a woman since gender is like a yin-yang. Do not strive to be like a guy and protest that society is not letting you (even if they do) because you are NOT a guy. And like it or not, guys find a woman more attractive as a woman since well… because they are men and men love women (not gays), so typically whatever you find attractive in a guy, do the reverse and you will become more valuable to a guy. you can imitate Southeast Asian women, they know how to be feminine (NOT feminist). Whether you like it or not, the truth is that a guy will only fuck a bitch but he will commit to the real WOMAN and since guys are not selective (the more mate the better) they wont mind doing you even if you’re not acting like a lady (in fact we would even prefer that setup carnally), but don’t expect a phone call the next day.
Cross-posted at Wizard Corpse.
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Great post. I’m still depressed it took me so long to wake up. I was the Nice Guy described here basically my whole life. I was perpetually confused by the behavior of girls who would confide in me their troubles with their jerk boyfriends, all the while ignoring me totally as a potential boyfriend, even as I did everything they said they wanted their boyfriend to do.
Excellent post. The only thing that gave me pause was when you said “women don’t know what they want” regarding a lack if knowledge about the opposite sex.
I personally think women know exactly what they want, and are experts at getting it. They know what they want, they just don’t know why they want it.
Minor disagreement, really, and it doesn’t change the message or the truth in this article. I think I’m going to start a fake email address so I can forward articles like this to my coworkers, close friends, and family without getting busted.
Again, great view on a serious subject.
“If you think about it, it’s not only the girl that becomes the victim here”
How´s the girl a victim at all?
Dude, they’re always victims.
Beautiful mind-fuck.
Solid post. I love the way it deals with core sexual market issues. This is the blueprint for men to truly “Man up”.
Eh. I like being a nice guy. It gives me pleasure. I dont exist on this planet to do what women want. It is sad to me how men are always asking themselves what women want, and not what they want. There just seems something so sad and wrong about that. I no longer concern myself with what women want, I just think about what I want, and I have been much happier and more liberated. And what I want is to be easy going, kind, and nice, and not worry about putting on a tough exterior, like I used to do in high school, when I was afraid of girls. I have not noticed it affecting my love live too much. But too each his own.
I’m sort of in the same boat, Mike. I can be a jerk when pushed or when I make a deliberate effort, but maintaining the facade rarely seems worth the effort. By any objective analysis, I’m a beta nice guy. It’s just what my personality defaults to.
The key is to be fully aware of it, and never let others abuse your good naturedness or take advantage of your tendency to compromise and your willingness to bare others’ burdens. Have I missed opportunities (relationship, career, etc.) because I have not acted alpha and dominant? Almost certainly. But at least I can say I’ve never allowed myself to become someone’s bitch.
“I no longer concern myself with what women want, I just think about what I want, and I have been much happier and more liberated. ”
Interestingly enough Mike, you seem to have arrived at the same point from a different perspective.
@V10, yeah, thats extremely important, to not let yourself be abused or taken advantage of. People often use nice guy in two completely different senses – 1) As a guy who does not stand up for himself 2) As a guy who is just nice and kind.
I am a nice guy only in the 2nd sense, and I very much do stand up for myself. But in reality there are not really that many times during the day where you have to stand up for yourself, so it is a pretty small part of my life. But you make a very important distinction there.
I have not really noticed that being mean helps with girls. I think I was saved from believing that by having some good friends who were super nice guys to girls (not pushovers, just kind, nice guys) who got tons of really pretty girls.
Either way, who cares? We live once, and it is no fun putting on a mean exterior all the time to impress the girls ;) I would rather just have a good time!
@jer-the-ber – only superficially. What I want is to be nice – to be a *beta* nice guy! The OP only approves of *doing what you want without caring what the girl thinks* if it happens to be tough guy things to impress the girl. Its not really doing what you want – its acting it out to impress girls. If doing what you want happens to be nice things, then suddenly you gotta do what SHE wants ;)
Any one cannot change the nature of sexuality. There was a well established sexual life style which is natural and acceptable. All of women and girls were secured with that sexual lifestyle. Feminism and feminists were complicated the sexuality and destroyed that lifestyle. They are responsible for this matter as well. Feminists can say that men with lack of masculinity are good, but they cannot build up the society (both feminists and their men).
http://spiritofnature99.blogspot.com/
First of all I would like to thank alll those who read my articles, (hated or loved it ) this post was actually created as a reaction to a question by a reader: why are all guys such assholes and here I explained to her why she thinks that way.
@ 2 Professor Mentu
thats ok prof, liek what I always say when somene proposes an idea and another one disagrees, an inteligent conversation starts. actually yes they may know what they want, most of the time though, they dont know what they need, just like a child who wants his parents to give him all the toys he wants but then he ends up a spoiled brat and resents his parents by means of being rebellious. According to my observation thus dont spoil your women. but I do stand corrected when I used the word “want”. some women know what they want and need though and that’s kinda rare for a girl to be that insightfull. why dont we try an experiment to test this, lets go out and ask women what they want from a guy so she will never cheat on him or ass rape him in divorce after she gets bored. If we get realistic answers in at least 70% of them then we can asume that its safe to ask women what they want. I tried this before, I always end up hearing something in the line of a nice car, handsome brad pitt look, sexy body, doesnt cheat (because her alpha boyfriend is an asshole, but ity seems tah she cant get enough of him), will take her to the most expensive restaurants, flowers. lets see what youll get man.
@mike
mike, listen to any conversations of a pua, if you think about it he is being nice and both of them are having fun. there is a big difference between being nice as a way of pleasing others and being nice because you just feel like it. women resent the former kind of being nice and honestly we all have a tendency to do this even I catch myself doing this at times, but thats the important thing. being aware so you know what you are doing. now lets take it to the scene of an LTR or marriage. do you think a nice guor you will be happy being bossed around by your wife while saying: “yes dear”. Yeah good boy, if you will be happy being Norbit then you dont need to read sites like this if not then I think you are misunderstanding “niceness”. NOTE: you dont always need to be an asshole to maintain a relationship or pickup: there is even the stage of building comfort and connection but that comes after building attraction. andeven if you are in an LTR or in marriage, you must always spice it up with attraction inducing actions or as roissy put it: give her “gina tingles”.
I would like you to reflect on this man: a guy who is alwyas so damn nice because he wants to gain approval from others to the point that he does things that are against his will eg: a girl will ask you to hold her stuff for her or needs your help in something and you got other work to do, wont you be compeld to do it ? but that is against your will and complying will make just get you a backstage pass to her “best friends FOREVER” circle but resent your sexuality. If you are well aware of the dynamics going on, you can purposefully decline right? and it WILL NOT FEEL RIGHT at first but you wont believe the attraction that you will be getting, but it not feeling right doesnt mean that it is NOT THE REAL YOU like whta I said in my past article, it just doesnt feel right because of “GUILT”. and it goes without saying that you shoul not let anyone who uses guilt as a weapon into your life because they bring only missery, so do you still think that it is wrong to ignoree your guilt? and to think of it that doesnt make you an asshole, you did not ravage her or hit her or anything. the term asshole we use here because you are diplaying the GUTS of an asshole. his guts to stand up for himself and what he thinks is not necessary or inconvineint to him. and his guts are very attractive plus it lets you command respect from others and dont you like guts? who the hell resents having guts anyway? if you agree with the guts thing then that might imply that the niceness that you do is not against your will. generally I make it a point to refrain from doin favors to others it might be hard because that is our “drone-programming”. but I think you are wise enough to know who really needs help and who are only using their gender as means of letting others do the things that they can really do on their own and thinks that they are entitled to it or a guy who is just an asshole or an asshole wannabe who wants to tool you.
Very good points, Mike. I’ve often wondered about that whole acting versus being yourself thing, too. Too many guys seem to think that changing everything about yourself is the key to getting girls. But even if that tactic works, you’re pretending to be someone else! Meaning you can never let your guard down, you feel constant anguish that you’ll be discovered as a fraud, etc.
This is not to say, as you note, that being a pushover, if that’s what you think of as your deepest identity, is a good strategy to pursue. But when you think about it, that’s not what you really want, in your heart of hearts, to be doing anyway. As a former pushover myself, I noticed that every time I would allow myself to be used by anyone–girl or guy–I felt like shit. There was always this voice in the back of my head saying, “This isn’t me! Let the real me out!”
So being a pushover isn’t your true self, no matter what the built-in defense mechanism to prevent you from killing yourself tells you. I know this is something people have brought up before, but I’m truly convinced, if my own beta to (lower) alpha transformation is any indication, that virtually all men, assuming they’re okay hormonally, have a dominant innate self. It’s just been buried under layers of social conditioning, shame, and delusion.
Once those are wiped away, though, which is to say once one’s genes are allowed to take over, the true self takes flight. Most men are like Joyce’s Stephen Daedelus: there’s something potent there at the core; one just needs to slog through all the barriers to gain entry, as it were, to oneself–family, country, religion, guilt, insecurity, all the things imposed from without that really have nothing to do with the essential man.
If you let this true self flourish, you are stable, calm, collected–in short, you have a real center, which is all women want anyway. Women don’t have a center; they’re adrift, like a satellite. All they want is a gravitational center to give them the stability their chaotic psychology can’t provide. The biggest misconception, not only with game but with the male population overall, is that women like assholes. They don’t. Women like confident guys. That’s it.
But most guys fall into one of two categories: they’re either nice pushovers or confident assholes. Faced with this choice, women invariably choose the asshole, not because they want the asshole but because they want confidence. Given a third option, the nice confident guy, the quality (i.e., minimal daddy issues) girls choose it every time. But most guys notice the asshole, not the confidence; they miss the forest for the trees.
When it comes right down to it, the hottest, most feminine girls go for the nice, polite, but extremely confident guys. The assholes get hot girls as well, don’t get me wrong; they just tend to be the crazy and insecure ones, the ones you want to have a sadomasochistic relationship with, not the ones you want to marry. Granted, marrying *any* girl is probably a losing proposition nowadays, but at least in the abstract, from what I’ve observed, the best of the best, the Malin Akerman types, go for nice guys. Not pushover nice guys, but confident nice guys.
Confidence, simply put, is everything.
Mostly ugly men get called creeps in my experience. They also can’t usually pick up on all the slight and not so slight hints that their advances are unwanted. Being nice is something anyone can and does do.Being nice does not create attraction for that reason. Being unnice will create the opposite of attraction in a healthy person. I think a lot more then just woman are confused about what they want. Every guy seems to think he’s a nice guy. I think men confuse assertive but respectful with asshole which is basically assertive + all encompassing narcissism. I think even assholes come off as superfically nice until you get to know them most of the time. They have the advantage in that it’s easy to lie and tell people exactly what they want to hear. It’s much harder to catch people being shady liars and by that point one has already invested some time and effort.
@Dorian Gray
“overconfidence is the heart of game” that is what I always hear, and indeed its true. and like what I said in the post that women are actually attracted to the High value that the typical asshole or natural demonstrate and it is indeed clearthat those bahavior that demonstrate valuable traits are applicable and learnable and yuo definitely dont need to be a “bad” person to become that attractive or respected man. I have an uncle, he’s a natural , the one that anyone would call an asshole, but everytime I get to talk to him, you will forget that he is the person your talking to: he would even talk about how I should strive not to be a liability to my father who was ill at that time and taht I should show respect to my parents. he also taught me that a man must always command (lead) his spouse or his partner and be responsible.in the end who we call assholes may not be the person that we get to see on surperficial lens. some may have good values and most of those who I know of are very principled.
Slight correction on the premise:
“we can immediately see where the confusion and the problem lie: lack of awareness of the nature of the opposite sex, for BOTH sides.”
It´s not a lack of awareness but instead, from earliest childhood an active and determined effort to obscure the real hypergamous and submissive nature of women to men.
While simultaneously seducing girls into a status obsessed entitled princess nature.
In fact even a supremacist attitude of “girls are better”, “boys are dumb”.
Just watch cartoons with open eyes.
The basic problem is a simple one, the “Nice Guy” is concerned about what a woman wants and tries to give it to her. The “Jerk” doesn’t care what she says she wants, he wants to know what can will do for him. I learned long ago that of those two scenarios, I would rather be the later then the former. So these days I enjoy women immensely and never stress – the reason is simple, I will always get what I want out of a relationship, and if she doesn’t give me what I want, I kick her to the curb.
You are either in control, or you are controlled. It is the way of life – you choose which of those sides you want to be on. The advantage of being in control, is you call the shots, you decide what you want, and who will give it to you, and if she doesn’t like it, no biggie, there are others who do. Women are common, men who intrigue them aren’t. So ultimately I AM giving them EXACTLY what they want – its just not what they say they want. But it is what they respond to – which is what they really want.
Look at someone actions to learn what motivates them. If you play the “nice guy” and get no where – that isn’t what she wants. She wants what she find attractive and desirable. Of course, no woman will ever admit that, but I’ve been with women and had their friends come to my place later. All woman are competitive and they want to feel accomplishment at getting a man who can have any woman – not the one that pines after them…
So when I say, “Man up” – I mean and use women like they are meant to be used, and want to be used. You will be a lot happier, and so will she…
I’d like to say that as a guy, when I help other guys, they feel indebted to owe me the favor, and eventually help me if I ask them to do something.
Women on the other hand, do not feel that same way. This could be why there are so many nice guys, because they feel like if they help her, she is supposed to owe him back a favor (sex).
@doc
maybe you should start a blog. tell me ill be reading
@Anonymous
like the godfather effect. the world is like that , exchanging favors but incidentally women seem to enjoy giving favors in a relationship than to take a guy who always gives her favors as a partner. as the saying goes women love those who have the potential to hurt her, so is you want to be loved, show her that you have the potential to hurt her and don’t be afraid to demand or make her pay for dinner once in a while or every time. don’t carry all the shopping bags, save some for her. that can add 2 years to your marriage so your free to thank me for that
Fuck, women are just happy to have a man who could hold a job, practice personal hygiene habits, and hold a decent conversation. The last one is bigger than you’d think, especially in a long term relationship, believe me.
Why not just focus on making yourself more happy regardless of how much T&A you are getting. Probably the reason you aren’t attracting any good women is because you’re giving off that angry bitter vibe.
Schwyster gave you a shout-out at Jizzebel:
http://jezebel.com/5889669/only-assholes-say-you-wont-sleep-with-them-unless-theyre-assholes
hmm i see that this article is getting quite a reaction , I would like to thank Schwyster
http://m.jezebel.com/5889669/only-assholes-say-you-wont-sleep-with-them-unless-theyre-assholes
who have mustured inspiration to write a post because of the “unnacceptable” things that we convey. I guess these peole would want to hang our asses on stakes and burn us like witches. I dont blame them, aand it is true that we are only adapting,
the truth is like I said that you dont need to become a bad person to convey “asshole traits. but it is tru that most women think that all guys are assholes because they’ve only dated assholes. why? because theyre attractive duh. im no chic but I see this as a fact. maybe Schwyster lives in a place where there are not so many alphas so he cant observe them in action. it doesnt mean though that you only need asshole traits exclusively to maintain relationship, like what I said you just need it in a relationship to spice it up like how you add pepper to a dish, but I still stand CORRECT i the fact that assholes indeed possess many traits that women crave that they dont see in everyday betas. this article is written for the women who ask the question above on why all guys are assholes and guys who can be defined as “nice guys” and has lived all his life castrated or his balls on a purse. this article will help them alot
PS: I will talk more about the balanace between asshole behavior and beta traits to maintain a relationship. I’ll keep you posted
in the meantime: haters , enjoy hating
lol ;-p
Ah, the oversimplification of attraction…
Since I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, my experience is limited to myself and my social circle. I’ve been interested in both “nice guys” and “assholes”. I’ve also been massively disinterested in people who fall into the same categories. Why? Because attraction is fickle, dependent on time and situation and how drunk you were and how full the moon is at the time you meet the nice/asshole guy. I’ve been bemused as men who are far less attractive than I am ask why I won’t “give them a shot” (as if being nice will spontaneously override basic sexual attraction) and I’ve dated “nice” guys who leave my friends scratching their heads, wondering why I’m so enamoured with someone less conventionally attractive than I am.
Anyway, to aid self-proclaimed nice guys everywhere: stop worrying about how supposedly nice you are/agonizing over how people don’t appreciate it and get on with your life. If someone treats you badly and won’t recognize it, then walk away and don’t look back. Don’t be a freakin’ doormat–that’s not nice, it’s ridiculous. If they have sober second thoughts, recognize an attraction to you, and adjust their behaviour, things may work out later; if they never call you again, then obviously it wasn’t going to work out for you anyway.
Yet another testament to the inadequacies of the average person and more specifically the average female. I have been aware of this since I was young. What I wondered is why women are attracted to malignant traits like this..the answer is that they are retarded! I won’t pay attention to most females of fertile age due to their total inability to be honest and open from the start with me and themselves. And guess what, it does not matter how “hot” she is. If she is of breeding age and does not measure as a person, she will not be riding my large, erect penis. She will get nothing from me but the occasional assist (out of pity for her demoralized and retarded state of being). So the statement that “… you can never fight temptation face to face” is really a great testament to total inadequacy since after all I am not subject to this phenomena. I am not tempted (to the point where I would give) to have sex with shitty people if I am aware they are a shitty person. Fucking (sex) shitty people only reinforces their behavior yielding the vicious cycle that we are in. Assholes do not deserve success since they can only acquire resources through domination rather than pure abilities outside of aggressive conquest.
If you are a person who is into being “social” than how about rejecting women who respond to these techniques and telling them why before you set them loose.
Bongstar420
“If you are a person who is into being “social” than how about rejecting women who respond to these techniques and telling them why before you set them loose.”
-easier said than done. but no , I make fun of her, then fuck her and never call again, because I got amnesia.
“won’t pay attention to most females of fertile age due to their total inability to be honest and open from the start with me and themselves. And guess what, it does not matter how “hot” she is. If she is of breeding age and does not measure as a person, she will not be riding my large, erect penis”
If you are really speaking of the truth then you must have removed your balls or maybe you’re gay But I would like to think that “maybe” you are jsut getting too much sex that you’re unable of being aroused
” but the occasional assist (out of pity for her demoralized and retarded state of being)”
Man, you wont get to fuck her and there you go doing errands for her? out of pity? is it not some kind of approval seeking? be honest . bitterness will eat you alive and if you are bitter the whole of your world will be to you. most of the things you wrote kind of shows the pattern of sourgraping. I wont reach for that grape because it is sour, so what if I get hungry! that is rather helpful as a denial mechanism and you can actually uphold your own dignity and by making other people believe that indeed that grape is just not worth it. but it is not too useful as where personal growth is concerned. I suggest you read this one because I can to be honest picture you as a bitter geek with some terrorist or some school shootout tendency
http://wizardcorpse.com/how-can-a-geek-get-laid/
“Assholes do not deserve success since they can only acquire resources through domination rather than pure abilities outside of aggressive conquest.”
yes they don’t, but they do: that is the point and that will always be the point unless you could own your own planet and design your own beings , that will always be the case.
I think I have touched upon the topic of how one can show confident traits which does not make him into a defacto asshole quite too many times already I have even spoken in this article how even an absolute natural need to show some soft sensitive side:
http://wizardcorpse.com/for-the-stiff-guy-only-affection-from-an-alpha/
. actually in women’s point of view, creepy nerdy guys are assholes. but the point of being a “bad guy” is not actually on doing harm to others but on just doing what you want with little regard to authority and with some confidence that what ever happens it can’t be that bad plain and simple but that bears repeating every single time. being a little unrestricted by trivial laws and policies by human authorities that are not necessary or don’t make sense to begin with can also automatically make you be seen as an asshole and point being you don’t need to be a stupid dick to be attractive you have your brains right? then still think by yourself. and arguably declining “assisting” women can make you an automatic asshole and pretty much show her that you have a backbone.
so its that dead fucking simple!!!:
just show everyone that you have a backbone that is pretty much the point of this article.and it is definitely not my intention that to show backbone in this society is labelled as being asshole.
I hope that helped you. thank you for reading
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