Goodbyes

by Ferdinand Bardamu on February 2, 2010

in Humor

Anoukange hangs up her heels.

Unfortunate, but necessary. Au revoir.

UPDATE: She’s changed her mind, thankfully. I’d defend myself against her insulting and false claim that I ratted her out to Roosh, if it weren’t for the fact that I’m confident that most will take my word over hers. As Roosh himself noted, there’s a reason no one is defending her.

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1 Default User February 2, 2010 at 5:37 pm

So what was the story? Is this a sort of “mess with Ferdi, and blog with the fishes” type of thing?

2 slumlord February 2, 2010 at 6:33 pm

Bugger, seemed a nice arty girl.
There is obviously more to this than meets the eye.

3 z February 2, 2010 at 9:28 pm

guess this is Roosh’s stalker…..

4 RW February 2, 2010 at 10:01 pm

Yeah, I thought the same thing. Must be Roosh’s stalker girl.

5 OneSTDV February 2, 2010 at 10:10 pm

What happened?!?!

6 Tupac Chopra February 3, 2010 at 12:26 am

guess this is Roosh’s stalker…..

If anoukange was Roosh’s latest notch I’ll eat my shoe.

(and give him a high five)

7 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 1:42 am

I am not roosh’s stalker. he labels any girl that if things blew up or over between him and the girl. He has a past and a pattern. Roosh knows what happened. He knows that I wasn’t interested in him. He is a bit young for me. I am older than him for christ sake. There are things he did that deserved such an email. if you all are really the players you all claim to be, then I’m sure that you have received similar emails. My assessment of him is much closer to the truth than his of me. I have no idea what VK is so hell bent on raging on me. He seems to be more pissed than anyone. I never talked shit about either of them in the city. I simply stated that some people have a very low opinion of them. Keeping in mind that DC is a conservative city…how do you think some may react to these guys? VK seems to think I have been “yapping” my mouth around the city. This is not true. My style is much more low key. Roosh has it coming from me if I ever said anything about him, but I’ll shut the fuck up because it’s not worth it. VK has some bad information. I do not and have not smeared them. I made a few comments on a post on my own blog assessing Roosh and the types of guys that tend to fall into “game”. I took them down immediately because unlike Lady Raine, I do not have a set of balls. This type of shit hurts me. Ferdinand obviously went and told om me. You can call me nuts, and other things but Roosh has put a spin on this and now that he has done it to me, I have to think he has done it with other stories as well. He is spinning it to “teach me a lesson”.

8 sage February 3, 2010 at 2:07 am

O_o
that email sure is weird.
anoukanage should definitely take a break.

9 Dylan February 3, 2010 at 4:08 am

Dear God, that email on Roosh’s blog is scary, and then she trumps herself in the comments section. Every single woman in this PUA-MRA part of the blogosphere is absolutely nuts.

Fuglies who think they make heads turn for their hotness. Sluts who think they are “pure”. Cougars who think they are “worldy”. Fatties who think they are “curvy”. Bimbos who think they are smart. Anoukage is just an extreme example and a combination of all these various delusions and pathologies.

10 Gx1080 February 3, 2010 at 5:55 am

About that e-mail:

Slut pride? Check.
Shaming Language? Check.
Lack of knowledge of her sexual market value? Check.
Attempt of saving face? Check.
Internet tough guy, well, girl threats? Check.

Hmm. Such brave attempt of defending that e-mail, and her “assessment of him” that didn’t come from anywhere esle than the e-mail.

Finally:

“DC is a conservative city”

Never been there, but really?

11 Gx1080 February 3, 2010 at 6:03 am

@Dylan

Most women, specially western women are that crazy. We just get to see it more often because the Manosphere is a threat to the sisterhood’s gravy train.

12 The Fifth Horseman February 3, 2010 at 6:25 am

How old is she? i.e. how close is she to her Wile E. Coyote moment?

13 Dylan February 3, 2010 at 6:30 am

@Gx1080

I don’t know, man. I know some pretty awesome women in real life, but there’s something wrong in the head with just about every woman I’ve seen start up a blog in this part of the “Roissy-sphere”. Roissy, Roosh et al wouldn’t have convinced me of their POV with their writing, and I read it more for entertainment value. However, as I familiarize myself with the voices in this sphere, its the women themselves who convince me of the truth of the more misogynistic points made around these parts.

I’ve cringed at the writings of delusional airheads like aoefe and “LilGrl” (ugh!) many a time, but that anoukange character just took it to a whole other level with that email/comment. wtf?

14 Dylan February 3, 2010 at 6:46 am

@ 5th Horseman

The body is still tight, but the head has long passed the Wile E Coyote moment (unless photographed in red light). Check her out:

http://anoukange.wordpress.com/idphotos-3/

Brave/dumb of her to still have her photos up after embarrassing herself so spectacularly.

15 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 8:15 am

regardless of what I do right now, you all will take your shots. The email makes perfect sense to any girl who has ever been put through the shit that Roosh dishes out. You all are cowards for taking shots at someone you’ve never met. Let me find you in emotional distress and take a peak into your personal backgrounds, I’m sure you’re all are a picture of perfection. So I still tried to be kind in my handling of it and this is a bad thing? You people live for this. You live to tear others down. Keep it coming, I’m not going anywhere. 95% of the people who shredded me on that thread have never even heard of me but love when Roosh looks for any excuse to violate trust with any girl he’s ever known for the benefit of fodder. He has done this repeatedly to many girls I’m sure.

16 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 8:43 am

” Slut pride? Check
“Lack of knowledge of her sexual market value? Check.
Attempt of saving face? Check.
Internet tough guy, well, girl threats? Check.”

@GX1080-you’re an ass and a coward. I can’t be a slut, I’ve been with six guys.
Saving face? impossible at this point. But you’ll all go away eventually and this will pass, just as people tell me. Tell me, how would you feel if this was done to you? Let me guess, you have never fucked up anything in your life.

I get linked to the Roissy world here and there, but I am not a major part of it. I comment when I have something to say. The email was about defending myself and I was very pissed when writing it, it was a while ago. It is a brilliant move on Roosh’s part to have saved it and now played it against me. I could not have set myself up any better. He is an absolute pro at this thing, as well rehearsed as he is in it. But I will survive and you will all move on to the next victim.

DC can appear liberal, but has a very politically correct conscience so it can most certainly be filed under conservative for American cities.

Do any of you have sisters? Would you feel bad for them if they managed to get themselves tangled up with the likes of Roosh? I’m an idiot for trying to treat him nicely, even after the posting but you can’t possibly commend what he did. I am ill-equipped to know how to handle such a mess. My crashing and burning is proof that I am not among the usual crowd that hangs out on the internet.

of course my physical self in under attack as well, how very predictable.

I will meet any of you, at any time so you can asses my old ass in person.

It’s impossible to get a fair shake with this whole thing, you all should know there’s more to the story, as there always is.

17 Mike T February 3, 2010 at 8:43 am

That raises the question of why you would play directly into his hands. I don’t know either of you, so I can only profile you from your comments and his blog post. He’s a player, and you came off as a typical scorned, vengeful woman. Your email had the poise that one would associate with a drunk cat launched by trebuchet off a cliff.

18 Jay February 3, 2010 at 9:06 am

You sound so arrogant in that email,noone but noone could ever feel pity for you. What you said about those teenage boys, it’s just so cruel! Just suffer!

19 Trouble February 3, 2010 at 9:08 am

She has the “crazy eyes” look about her.

20 Trouble February 3, 2010 at 9:11 am

Nice ass though.

21 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 10:16 am

Mike T.-
Fair enough.

People:
come on you guys. Read my blog. Read “As you wish”. Read every entry I ever wrote regarding love. I am good to the men in my life. Roosh brings out the crazy in people. I have little experience with such hate. I am not that egotistical, I was attacking someone who violated my trust and respect. You all have to give me a fair shake if you want the real picture. He continued to gauge me wrong and it finally reached the point of me writing that email to him. It was written in a state of pure attack. I needed to defend myself. Judge how I defend myself. Don’t negate that I am a good person with a good heart and got myself mixed up with a person who sought to bring me harm. It was an instinctual response, fight of flight. There is no telling how you would react. You must cut me some slack. Those words were specific to him and only him. I do not treat people unkindly. It is fact, not my opinion that I am a kind and generous person.

22 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 10:22 am

Roosh has a very well documented history of doing this to girls. I have no history of such nonsense.

23 Mike T February 3, 2010 at 10:44 am

Roosh has a very well documented history of doing this to girls. I have no history of such nonsense.

Did you get involved with him before or after discovering this?

24 Gx1080 February 3, 2010 at 11:10 am

Slut pride:

“I’ve landed a structural engineer, a financial annalist, an architect/signed musician and a political economist who was published and on television for his work done at Duke University”

You wouldn’t have quitted your blog if you weren’t trying to save face.

And really, I’m not threathening you. Just that in my experiance, those who us phisical threats on the Internet:

“if you try to pull anything with my personal information I will have you beaten. In all seriousness, I have someone waiting for my check (and I will pay) to hunt you down in Medellin and kick the living shit out of you. ”

Are all bark, no bite. Besides that statement shows you as batshit insane.

@Dylan

That’s because the women who start blogs on this part of the Roissy-shpere are attention whores. But all women got the same capacity of conducting vendettas against men, and they got the full support of the state. Even if his crime is basically not making her horny anymore or having married a golddigger.

25 Default User February 3, 2010 at 11:18 am

Here are some lessons from this.

For men: Game does work. However, it is not without costs. You run the risk of hurting someone (a real person just like your sister, mother, or daughter). You run the risk of ending up involved in “drama” that may, or may not be fun.

For Women: Game does work. Do not be so quick to dismiss it with the would not work one me/smart women/anyone with self esteem, etc brush-offs. I realize that it is not fun feeling that you have been “played,” but since the beginning of time men have been “played.” They have been played for free drinks, for free meals, and for emotional support. Such men may be stupid to expect sexual access for these behaviours but, no doubt, their disappointment hurts just the same.

For some, such games provide cruel satisfaction but for most it is just self-interest. Wise men that have been played (probably most of us) realize that it is best to learn our lesson and move on; a wise woman should do so as well. The Jumbotron test applies to women as much as men.

In the end, been “played” merely means that we did not get what we expected to get. If you can learn a lesson then learn it. If you cannot learn a lesson then forget it.

I do not want to get into specifics of this particular dust-up, so that is probably all I will say on this.

26 TAllagash February 3, 2010 at 11:23 am

someone was quick to whiteknight her plight. very first post…predictable as all hell.

27 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 11:30 am

Mike T- I had no idea that he was like this. I have only found this out in recent months through friends.
GX1080-I have not quit my blog. please go to my blog and read my most recent post. The parts of the email you ave quoted were in defense to him on specific things. I am proud of the men I have dated, as I should be. They were good men, ad I was good to them. I came from nothing, I was raised on an Indian reservation. Everything that I am I have worked hard for. I left a six year relationship with a guy who I helped get to a good financial standing. I left because money doesn’t bring happiness. I just want to love and be happy. I can build anything else together with a good man. I have before and I will do it again.

Read my blog. Dig around. I am a good woman who got tangled up in a a bad situation. I am not squeaky clean and I do not wish to portray myself as this but I am good. An idiot, clearly, but good.

28 Tupac Chopra February 3, 2010 at 11:48 am

Well well well well WELL

Now isn’t this just a fine how do you do.

Up until now, I had figured anoukange as “one of the good ones.” Smart, feminine, artsy, pro-male, etc. She waxed poetic on her vision of relationships with the sort of informed idealism I find charming in a woman. Given her self-admitted selectivity and relative chastity(?), one would have expected the man in her life to be an inspiring example of evolved masculinity, a true Mensch.

…and she ends up in a SNL with Roosh. On a bus.

…under the spell of having the same birthdays as each other. (wtf?)

Now, I love Roosh. The man is a straight-shooter and is probably the best no-bullshit PUA guru I’ve read. I’m sure his pick-up skills are second to none. But something in my gut tells me that it wasn’t so much his Game that allowed him to penetrate anoukange’s delicate folds. The disparity between Ange’s professed life philosophy and the type of man that Roosh is (which he ADVERTISES on the INTERNET, ffs) is simply too much for even my cynical mind to bear. No, my gut is telling me that what motivated Ange was not sentimental naivete, but the compulsion for celebrity, attention and status that seems to be endemic in the incestuous subculture of these DC blogs(*). In other words, anoukange reveals her spirit to be that of just another Starfucker.

I am every fucking thing and just a little more
I sold my soul but don’t you dare call me a whore
And when I suck you off not a drop will go to waste
It’s really not so bad… you know, once you get past the taste

I would however like to take a moment to thank the DC blog world for occasionally giving me much-needed slaps to the face, just at those moments when I start to hope for more out of the women I meet.

29 Tupac Chopra February 3, 2010 at 11:51 am

(*) no disrespect, Ferdi

30 justjoo February 3, 2010 at 12:13 pm

“I knew boys like you in high school and they and you reeked of dorky, sweaty, limp-nervous dick and they salivated as I walked by their lockers. I winked and said hi anyway but always dated much older guys because I had already been fucked, pinned down, slapped, spanked and rode up against a wall by real men and could only muster a yawn at the thought of potential sex with those boys. I slow danced with them sometimes and it always took them point two seconds to engorge with just a drift of fermions from my delicate, feminine, graceful neck.”

Yeap, definitely the words of ‘a kind and generous person’ as you say.

31 Welmer February 3, 2010 at 12:15 pm

Game really turns the tables, doesn’t it, Anouk?

This is what you ladies asked for, and now you’ve got it.

Enjoy!

32 dude February 3, 2010 at 12:32 pm

Another little gem of solipsism from the guest character.
http://girlgame.wordpress.com/2010/01/19/lost-in-his-cave-or-lost-interest-in-you/#comments
Scroll down or Ctrl+F her alias

Apparently game does not work on her…

33 Firepower February 3, 2010 at 1:18 pm

Tupac Chopra

I would however like to take a moment to thank the DC blog world for occasionally giving me much-needed slaps to the face, just at those moments when I start to hope for more out of the women I meet.

At least DC
is still good
for something

Live long enough and no treachery is unexpected.

34 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 1:28 pm

Tupac, you are wrong. ask your gut again. Please do try to re-think it.

Dude: game works in both good ways and bad. Also, what is so bad about what I posted at Girl game? It’s pretty solid advice for long terms.

I was very, very sad last year, throughout the year, I let my guard down and I’m an ass for it. Roosh weaseled in and I didn’t care enough for myself or my life at the time to put up much of a fight. But one bad guy out of only six at 32 years and NOT be jaded and spent on men is a thing to behold.

Welmer: I have never done anything to you. You are projecting your hate for women onto me.

Justjoo: I wrote that because Roosh likes to pick on guys who can’t get laid and I wanted to call him out on his hypocrisy. He claims to have been a dork and awkward with girls as late as his college years and yet he has slammed some guys.

35 Snark February 3, 2010 at 1:33 pm

“@GX1080-you’re an ass and a coward. I can’t be a slut, I’ve been with six guys.”

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

36 Snark February 3, 2010 at 1:37 pm

“I knew boys like you in high school and they and you reeked of dorky, sweaty, limp-nervous dick and they salivated as I walked by their lockers. I winked and said hi anyway but always dated much older guys because I had already been fucked, pinned down, slapped, spanked and rode up against a wall by real men and could only muster a yawn at the thought of potential sex with those boys. I slow danced with them sometimes and it always took them point two seconds to engorge with just a drift of fermions from my delicate, feminine, graceful neck.”

LOL!

Why must scorned and hurt women insist on rewriting their lives as though they played out like a crappy teen movie from the 1980s?

Nobody’s real life is like this, ankouwhatever your name is. Do you think we don’t know?

37 Ferdinand Bardamu February 3, 2010 at 2:00 pm

Tupac:

no disrespect, Ferdi

Dude, I’m not a DC blogger, unless New York’s Capital Region has been transplanted into the Washington, DC area when I wasn’t looking. I’m an outsider just like you. There’s no “blog community” here, and I’m thankful.

38 Tupac Chopra February 3, 2010 at 2:06 pm

Ha. My bad. Carry on then.

39 dude February 3, 2010 at 2:25 pm

“Dude: game works in both good ways and bad. Also, what is so bad about what I posted at Girl game? It’s pretty solid advice for long terms.”

Glad to hear the clarification. I understood for a moment there that you were stating that game does not work on you since you were able to “sniff it” or something.

I also find it interesting that you stated you left in the middle of sex, but neglected to state that you had had sex a few times before that event. Now we all lie or omit around the internet, but doing so to support a point you are trying to make will expose you to some ridicule if found out, don’t you think?

As long as you don’t want to openly state that game did not work on you after the now known facts, I will not continue to pile onto your situation.

40 Welmer February 3, 2010 at 2:28 pm

Welmer: I have never done anything to you. You are projecting your hate for women onto me.

-Anouk

I don’t hate women per se, but I certainly do hate what they’ve become. You’re about my age, Anouk, and as far as I can tell you’re an attractive, capable woman. Instead of becoming a mother and fulfilling your purpose in life, you go through a series of men without any intention of offering anything of lasting value, and then throw a fit when you get dumped.

You are the kind of woman I’ve grown up with – a member of the most privileged class of people in the history of the world – and you expect pity when you get used by a guy who has learned to take that cheapest of assets you have — your “love.” And what is your love worth when you have already dumped a man you were in a six-year, adult relationship with? Yeah, that’s right: a few moments of fluid exchange and spurts of dopamine in the brain, and then “it’s been nice knowin’ ya, goodbye!” What does a man owe you for your love? Maybe a bag of skittles…

As for you being a “good person,” I don’t think so. Morally speaking you’re about average, which isn’t saying much these days. If you want to be “good,” then admit that what you did was not just “dumb,” but wrong as well. You were not just “used” — you actively participated, and you expected to get something of value (a man’s commitment) for something cheap (your ass). What happened to you was entirely your fault. Own it.

41 collegeboy February 3, 2010 at 3:01 pm

i saw her pics and all i gotta say is Roosh still gets with 5′s?

hmm.

42 Firepower February 3, 2010 at 3:11 pm

In the future,
blogging will be as popular as
MySpace
maybe even
AOL

43 anoukange February 3, 2010 at 3:28 pm

Ferdinand: I’m sorry. If I am wrong please accept my apology. Of course no one is defending me on his blog or here because of the nature of the entire situation. They have come to support me on my blog and in emails. You guys are four times as large as far as blogs go and my little corner only has several hundred readers. Please don’t join in on the hate wagon…I considered you a friend of sorts.

Dude: game worked on me. Roosh gamed me. We were never together so I was never dumped. I disagree with most of what he advises for men and that is my bone with him.

Collegeboy: to each their own. if you don’t like my looks or lack there of, than so be it. Have I personally attacked you in any way? You’re just being cruel.

Welmer: I have ever been privileged. I grew from my relationships. I am a nanny to several children an teach art to kids as well. I care a lot for them and work hard to set them up for the world they are coming into. I have contributed and continue to. Teaching is an underpaid and under appreciated job.

44 Firepower February 3, 2010 at 3:31 pm

This Entire Episode
is proof positive
Immigrants shouldn’t be allowed
in Ameriqa

45 K(yle) February 3, 2010 at 3:39 pm

Teachers are not underpaid. They make significantly above the median income, have decent benefits and the academic investment is a joke compared to demanding fields. It’s also easy to find work and impossible to get fired unless you are diddling kiddies or tweens.

46 Michael wears a hat February 3, 2010 at 3:39 pm

So this is the loony chick pitching a fit at Roosh?

So sad. Her blog made her look reasonable.

47 Firepower February 3, 2010 at 3:48 pm

Blogworld is drying up.

Spearhead has an excess of Napoleons
roissy is inundated with backslappers
GirlGamers have predictably grown bored of dabbling in a new sphere of male attention.

shucks. There’s no fit place to take a shit anymore.

Mout

48 RedTie February 3, 2010 at 3:52 pm

…..lol

49 Ferdinand Bardamu February 3, 2010 at 4:06 pm

Anouk:

Apology accepted. Stand by for more…

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